Monday, November 20, 2017

What is The Abilene Paradox ?

Context : Corporate World. (excerpt from publicly available sources)

On a birthday, a family decided to go out for dinner. Husband asked wife, where to go?
Thinking that he likes Gujarati food, she said: “Let’s go to Agashiye - The Terrace Restaurant!”
His son and daughter nodded in agreement. 

On their return, the son remarked, “I wish Papa had taken us to Mainland China, as he loves Chinese food. Or at least to Shere-E-Punjab for the wonderful tandoori chicken.” added his daughter. 

“Yes, I too would have loved to go Mainland China!”,  the man said. 

Wife looked surprised: “But didn’t we all unanimously agree to go to Agashiye,” she asked. He said sheepishly “I didn’t want you to feel bad.” And both children nodded in agreement.  Here were four people who of their own volition would not have gone to ‘Agashiye - The Terrace Restaurant, but collectively agreed to go there. 

This also happens in the corporate world. This is the Abilene Paradox

Prof Jerry Harvey calls it 'The Inability to Manage Agreement.'

The Abilene Paradox occurs when a group of people collectively decide on a course of action that is contrary to the preferences of most of the individuals in the group.

Prof Harvey states in his paper ‘The Abilene Paradox’, “Organizations frequently take actions in contradiction to what they really want to do and therefore defeat the very purpose they are trying to achieve”.

This is the inability to manage agreement.

He adds, “The inability to manage agreement, not the inability to manage conflict, is the  essential symptom that defines organizations caught in the web of the Abilene Paradox.” In the corporate world, when the top boss throws an idea, the group immediately agrees.  This is because everyone in the group thinks he would look stupid if he disagrees. 

Standing out as a lone voice is very embarrassing. This leads the group to decide on ‘yes’ when ‘no’ would have been the personal (and the correct) response of the majority.  If the top boss always disagrees with rest of group, then the organization will never have group giving honest opinion. 

I love this from Ayn Rand, “If we have an endless number of individual minds who are weak, meek, submissive and impotent. Who renounce their creative supremacy for the sake of the “whole” and accept humbly the ‘whole’s verdict’, we don’t get a collective super-brain. We get only the weak, meek, submissive and impotent collection of minds.”

Monday, November 13, 2017

WELLNESS; worth to have?

Hello Friends


In today's era; where everyone is just running; is it possible to spare some time for self?

You may ask; who is running; atleast I am not; is this true?

Every one of us just running; including me; running for money, running for education; running for life; running to get a shelter; running to run the family; running to feed; running for blah blah and sometimes doesn't even know for what.

To be honest; for all these running; we have left ourselves somewhere else; may be in a dark corner, out of sight.

In the race of getting more; we are in process of losing self; which is many times more than what we get. Needless to say "spending time with family; within family" is priceless. And it is only possible when you are around; around with sound health & always ready to live the life with them.

You can't take any physical objects with you to your grave; no matter how hard you had worked to achieve that. What you take is the memoir you have lived in. So it is better to live the life rather than.

Hence, the said is; you must take care of yourself as well while making money. If you ignore; then there would be time you find yourself seeking assistance. It is a fact that if your body stop supporting you; everyone else will also.

What is The Abilene Paradox ?

Context : Corporate World. (excerpt from publicly available sources) On a birthday, a family decided to go out for dinner. Husb...